Been there twice. Not in relation to the occurrences, but to the number of boys I have. They are young adults now, tunneling their way through that in-between period of "I'm too young and I can drink?" I'm glad you found your mojo. All they need is you.
I slept many nights with my oldest, and that was all he needed. My other one needed the same, but he was also the kind that scared me at 3am, hovering like a stalker while I slept. With him, I'd just throw the covers back, and he'd jump in. A few hours later, I'd walk him back to his bed, and that was it. There's always a monster or nightmare. That doesn't change.
I did a bedroom routine too. I watched them brush their teeth, a bath if needed and then read a book of their choosing. As a writer, I had stories too which they loved hearing. Then I fell asleep along with them.
I miss those days, but I've learned to love random hugs, forehead kisses (they're taller than me), and rare occasions they snuggle up to me on the couch to watch TV. The other day, my youngest(17) asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. I sat back and cherished the moment. Don't be discouraged. Your life with your son will be a long road of moments.
Been there twice. Not in relation to the occurrences, but to the number of boys I have. They are young adults now, tunneling their way through that in-between period of "I'm too young and I can drink?" I'm glad you found your mojo. All they need is you.
I slept many nights with my oldest, and that was all he needed. My other one needed the same, but he was also the kind that scared me at 3am, hovering like a stalker while I slept. With him, I'd just throw the covers back, and he'd jump in. A few hours later, I'd walk him back to his bed, and that was it. There's always a monster or nightmare. That doesn't change.
I did a bedroom routine too. I watched them brush their teeth, a bath if needed and then read a book of their choosing. As a writer, I had stories too which they loved hearing. Then I fell asleep along with them.
I miss those days, but I've learned to love random hugs, forehead kisses (they're taller than me), and rare occasions they snuggle up to me on the couch to watch TV. The other day, my youngest(17) asked me if I wanted to go for a walk. I sat back and cherished the moment. Don't be discouraged. Your life with your son will be a long road of moments.
That’s beautiful, I’m happy you shared this with me. Parenting can be such a roller coaster, but such a gift.
Thank you for reading and sharing. 🙏